Coven Decorum

~House Rules~

CONSENT IS KEY

Consent is required for all play and touch in this space, and it must be freely given, revocable, informed, enthusiastic, and specific. This includes photography, videography and audio recordings. Do not touch anyone’s bodies, or belongings without consent.

RESPECT

Respect the space, the players and their scenes. Please use the cleaning products to clean toys & furniture once you are done. Put things back where you found them. Do not interrupt or heckle scenes or aftercare. Be mindful of the time and space you are taking up if others are waiting to play. Treat everyone with kindness & respect.

CAREFUL VETTING

Carefully consider who you choose to play with and why. If you need guidance with vetting please ask the Coven Domme.

NEGOTIATE ALL SCENES

Negotiations must take place before every scene. Discussion should include what elements will be used, what body parts are permissible, who is participating, what are your safe words, what the aftercare will be, etc. Absolutely NO additions to the scene after negotiation ends & the scene begins.

USE SAFE WORDS

Default safe word is RED. If the Coven Domme hears it they will come check in. If anyone in the scene is gagged, negotiate a nonverbal safe word. All play stops when a safeword is used.

FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION

BDSM requires a high level of trust and vulnerability which is welcomed and encouraged in this space. Please go out of your way to make everyone feel comfortable and free to express themselves. We welcome all gender identities and sexualities and do not tolerate disrespect of any kind.

LAST WORDS

No alcohol or hard drugs permitted. No play while intoxicated. No sexual activity allowed what so ever. Toplessness is welcome but please leave on undergarments. The Coven Domme has the right to ask any person to leave at any time.Please let the Coven Domme know if you see any misconduct or consent violations.